On Parents Will

All children are entitled to inherit something from their parents. “However, the extent of inheritance will vary depending on whether the parent had a will or not at the time of death,”

So if there is indeed a will, your brother is entitled to at least one-fourth of the estate. “It could be lesser than that of the daughter, but the son must get something,” she relates. And if there is none, both children will have an equal share of the estate—though this does not apply if a child has already received something through donation from the parent while still alive. The value of the donation will have to be deducted from the share the child is entitled to.

When it comes to a serious matter like disinheritance, a lawyer friend has this to say: “The parent concerned cannot just disinherit the son simply because they don’t see eye to eye.” Disinheritance is allowed when and if:
• The parents have abandoned their children, or induced their daughters to lead a corrupt or immoral life, or attempted incest.
• The child has been convicted of an attempt against the life of the parent/s, children, or grandparents.
• The heir has accused the parent of a crime for which the law prescribes imprisonment for six years or more, and the accusation was found groundless.
• The heir fails to report to authorities the violent death of the parent within a month, unless the authorities have already taken action.
• The heir has been convicted of adultery or concubinage against the parent, or uses fraud, violence, intimidation, or undue influence to cause the parent to change a will.
• A person falsifies or forges a supposed will of his parent. He can kiss his inheritance goodbye.

So unless your brother committed any of the above wicked deeds, you should give him his rightful share. Also, please consult a lawyer.

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Historic Route 66 Fun Run

Seligman to Topock, Arizona May 1-3

The road trip you’ve always wanted to take is the star of this offbeat festival—and now you can enjoy the ride with some of the most unforgettable cars and vehicles from across the country. On a two-day Arizona Route 66 cruise from Seligman to Topock, Corvettes, classic cars, street rods, antique autos, and other creative modes of transportation converge for a Fun Run on the Mother Road. Have a ball taking in the roadside sites, including the Grand Canyon Caverns (limestone caverns south of the Grand Canyon); Oatman, once a flourishing mining town; and the legendary Route 66 Museum, in Kingman. Slow down and savor the journey or you’ll miss all the festivities along the way, from live music to a Miss Route 66 Pageant.

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Economic stress affects mental health

A poll conducted by the Gallup Healthways showed that Americans became increasingly stressed out and experienced worsened mental health due to the globally- experienced financial crisis.

The survey conducted on 355,334 people is believed to be the largest, longest, and most thorough poll that shows emotional well-being shifts with economic changes.

It produced a so-called Emotional Health Index (EHI), a measure that weighs negatives such as depression, worry and stresses against the positive feelings a person experienced the day before the survey.

According to David Baron, chairman of the psychiatry department at Temple University School of Medicine in Philadelphia, the poll findings are no surprise to anyone on the frontlines of mental health care.

“This recession has touched people in virtually every walk of life:’ Baron stressed.

The survey also showed that those 30 to 55 years old, prime earning years, may be suffering most from the bad economic news.

“And these are also prime-time decades for raising families. But that’s getting harder in such a tough economic climate,” said Julie Moghal, a psychologist based at Children’s Hospital in Orange, California.

“So many parents are feeling guilty and upset about how to handle economic reverses with children.” Moghal added.

Larry Berman, executive director of the American Association of Suicidology emphasized on the need for supportive friends in times of financial crisis.

Berman explained that a lack of supportive relationships is tied to higher suicide rates among the unemployed.

“When someone is in despair of economic problems, give them support and see that they get help for mental health problems. This is our time to be our brother’s keeper” Berman advised.

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Traffic may trigger heart attack

When caught in a traffic jam, don’t fume. Lest you end up with a heart attack.

A study presented in the recent American Heart Association’s 49th Annual Conference on Cardiovascular Disease Epidemiology and Prevention in Palm Harbor, Florida, has shown that people who have had a heart attack are likely to report having been in traffic shortly before their symptoms began.

Based on a German study of patients who had a heart attack, researchers found a three-fold risk of developing a heart attack for victims, male or female, who have been in traffic within an hour of the onset of their heart attack. Women had a higher five-fold risk of falling victim to this traffic ”hazard”.

Most of the patients were driving a car, but some were taking public transportation or riding a bicycle. Overall, time spent in any mode of transportation in traffic was associated with a 3.2 times higher risk than time spent away from this trigger. Most susceptible were females, elderly males, patients who were unemployed and those with a history of angina or chest pains previously.

“Driving or riding in heavy traffic pose an additional risk of eliciting a heart attack in persons already at elevated risk:’ said Annette Peters, Ph.D., principal investigator of the study.”In this study, underlying vulnerable coronary artery disease increased the risk of having a heart attack after driving in traffic:’ added Dr. Peters, who is also the head of the research unit at the Institute of Epidemiology, Helmholtz Zentrum in Munich, Germany Dr. Peters also explained that, “one potential factor could be the exhaust and air pollution coming from other cars but we can’t exclude the synergy between stress and air pollution that could tip the balance:’ she said.

Other previous researches have shown that those engaging in strenuous activity such as playing soccer or squash or performing heavy work such as painting overhead or snow shoveling had five to six times the risk of heart attack in the subsequent hours after the activity.

Based on this study, about 8 percent of the heart attacks could have been triggered by the traffic. “It’s just one of the factors, but it’s not a negligible number,” said Dr. Peters.

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Say “I’m sorry” if you act in a disrespectful or hurtful way toward your partner

This one is short and sweet. You’re not perfect — once in a while you may unintentionally (or intentionally) hurt our partner’s feelings. You may say mean-spirited things in the heat of the moment that you immediately regret — so swallow your pride, apologize, and ask for forgiveness. By the same token, you should also expect an “I’m sorry” from your partner if your feelings were hurt by disrespectful behavior.

I know there’s a chance that you had parents ho abused each other and became overwhelmed by relationship problems, and I’ll bet that they rarely said they were sorry for their actions. So be different — become truly free in your relationship by admitting that you were wrong. Really value your partner, and don’t let your relationship have an unhappy ending.

You’re now armed with some very important negotiating and compromising skills to use in any disagreement; and by utilizing these techniques, you’ll have much greater success in solving difficult relationship problems.

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NO MORE “CLEAN YOUR ROOM”

If you ever want to see the floor in there again, follow these tips from organization expert Julie Morgenstern.

CREATE ZONES
Designate a play area with shelves for toys and games, and a homework area with a bookcase close to the desk.

LABEL EVERYTHING
Bins, shelves, inside drawers this way there’s no confusion about where things go.

MAKE IT HANDY
Don’t expect kids to put toys on a high shelf. Storage needs to be within their reach, so keep it low.

SET A SCHEDULE
Have them tidy their rooms at the same time every day—say, after dinner or before bed.

PURGE
At least twice a year; help them donate items they no longer like or use.

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When emotional eating is serious

Plenty of us turn to a chocolate bar or a bowl of ice cream to feel better at least some of the time. But others take it a step further, soothing their emotions in an entire chocolate cake (or jumbo bag of chips). If you feel a compulsive need to eat large quantities of food when you’re not even hungry, often eat alone to avoid embarrassment, or are overwhelmed with feelings of worthlessness and guilt because of your eating habits, you may have a disorder that requires professional help. Contact the National Eating Disorders Association for a referral to a therapist.

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What you need to know about self esteem

Self esteem is the opinion you have of yourself it is based on your attitude to the following:

Your value as a person

The job you do

Your achievements

How you think others see you

Your purpose in life

Your place in the world

Your potential for success

Your strengths and weaknesses

Your social status and how you relate to others

Your independence or ability to stand on your own feet

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Love or just a summer fling?

You are dating this guy for about three months now and even time you two meet it leads to explosive fireworks.

You are absolutely charmed by his behavior, style, smile, intelligence and physique. You think of him every moment of the day. You want to spend very moment of the day with him.

At the beginning of a ‘serious” relationship it’s not uncommon to neglect everybody-even your closest friends and family- in favor of devoting all your time to your new love. In those rare moments when you’re not together, you’re talking to each other on the phone.

But as time passes by and your relationship becomes more complex, you realize that you have to give in your best shot and every relationship has its own set of duties, responsibilities and commitments.

Though you are willing to give in your best but within a few months3’ou see that there are a few things about your partner which drives you absolutely crazy. You probably noticed them all along, but at first everything about your love made you smile; you just brushed aside the small faults by telling yourself that love would get you through anything. As time passes, however, you notice that these small faults become bigger and bigger. And the problem is your partner is not willing to change. The romance in your relationship starts to fade away, you start to wonder whether or not the fires of love are burning hot enough to keep your relationship going. You wonder whether your relationship is based on “love” or was it merely “fleeting passion”. Here are a few facts that might help you decide.

Passion is the first thing that will fade away and true love will prevail. Passion is temporary in a relationship which lasts only for a few years but its love that will last forever.

Love is a feeling that encompasses tenderness, compassion, caring and devotion. But that also doesn’t mean that there will be no passion in your relationship. If you love your partner there has to be passion and excitement in your relationship.

Love is based on three important things; sexual attraction between the partners, respect for each other and common dreams. When you are in love you are physically and sexually attracted to your mate and respect plays a major role to keep the relationship going strong. Also two people who love each other share the same dreams and goals.

Difficult times truly test your love and it is during these times that you get a chance to come closer to your partner. These difficult periods are healthy and useful when they allow each partner to assert his or her expectations and needs regarding the relationship.

These difficult moments therefore give the two lovers the chance to better know each other and better let themselves be known. If you pass in this test then your relationship will never suffer

Thus relationships suffer when after the initial stages of passionate love couples start to pull out of it because of certain differences between them. When there is lack of understanding, patience and commitments in a relationship it is bound to suffer the fate of break-up and heart breaks. If relationships don’t lasts just because one partner is not ready to compromise then such a relationship had a very weak foundation. Love is compromising, caring for your partner and commitment. If these qualities are missing then it’s just fleeting passion and is bound to be over within a few months once the hunger for lust and desire is fulfilled. After all hunger believes in variety and can never stick to one flavor.

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